Alright, folks, let’s kick back, maybe grab a pint if that’s your thing, because we’re about to chat about something that’s been on my mind—the unbreakable bonds of friendship. After a rollercoaster of a summer where my mental health took a beating, it feels like the right time to give a shoutout to the people who’ve been my rock. So, here’s to the old pals, the new buddies, and the ones who prefer the shadows.
Picture this: I was just eleven when it all began. Darren, Paul, and I were brought together by a mutual love for all things good—music, TV, comedy, film, literature, and, of course, The Beatles. Our shared appreciation for the Fab Four was like the secret handshake of our friendship, and it was just the beginning. Life took us in different directions, with uni adventures and family life, but the camaraderie remained.
Now, we’re a bit older, a touch wiser, but our meet-ups, Guinness pints, and deep dives into conversations about the genius of Paul McCartney are still going strong. Laughter is our currency, and we’re almost constantly cracking jokes.
But there’s more to it. Darren and I share a unique connection. Over the years, we’ve dived into leftist politics, explored the intricacies of gender theory, and swapped stories about my eldest son’s journey to university. It’s the kind of friendship where we can discuss these topics openly, something us blokes don’t often do. Knowing these guys for so long has been a wild ride, and I’m eager for what the future holds.
Now, there’s a mate I need to mention without mentioning, if you catch my drift. He’s the shadowy figure in the background, preferring to lurk in the darkness. Let’s just say that without him, The Broken Spine (you know, the literary venture Paul and I cooked up) wouldn’t be what it is today. His guidance and keen eye have been absolutely vital. We might have had our rough patches, and I’ll admit there were times when I was a bit rubbish as a friend, but he’s stuck around and forgiven me. He believes in me and my work, and that means the world. Plus, his weird and twisted sense of humor is an absolute delight, and his friendship with my wife Kirsty? Well, that’s a daily dose of happiness right there.
And then there’s Shaun, a guy who deserves his own moment in the spotlight. Shaun is the kind of friend who not only gives you confidence but also the space to let your creativity flow. He’s got an encyclopedic knowledge of music that’s truly unreal, and he shares it generously, introducing me to tunes that make my day brighter. What’s remarkable about Shaun is his complete lack of ego. He’s the DJ who spun the tracks at The Broken Spine Live event over the summer, working tirelessly to keep the vibe just right. His infectious smile and unwavering support have been a source of inspiration, and I’m lucky to have him in my circle of friends. Cheers man!
Now, let’s talk about my virtual pals—Matt, Ed, and my former colleague, Helen. These are the folks who’ve been by my side through thick and thin. Each of them was there for me over the summer, and I’m grateful beyond words.
Let’s start with Matt, hailing from the poetry scene, who is undoubtedly a gem. He’s the one who nudged Paul and me to embark on our own press. Beyond his literary prowess, he’s been an unwavering source of support, especially when my mental health was on the line. His caring nature extended to offering guidance during my daughter’s school difficulties. Although a relatively recent addition to my circle, Matt has firmly etched himself as a rock in my life.
Now, let me tip my hat to Ed, a companion of over a decade. Our story began when I worked on promotional materials for a play he directed a decade ago, and our friendship has only grown stronger since. Like Matt, Ed lent a helping hand recently when I was navigating through some tough times. His consistent support means the world to me.
Lastly, there’s Helen, the freshest face in my inner circle. Her talent for making me laugh is truly remarkable. While we toiled together in a college environment that often felt like a battleground, like all my true friends, she reached out to me and provided invaluable support during the reemergence of my depression. Her presence has not only encouraged me to persist but to flourish.
So, here’s the deal, my friends—life’s a bit of a rollercoaster. But it’s the people who stand by you through it all, whether they’ve been there since you were eleven or just wandered into your life, that make it all worthwhile. These comrades are like the unsung heroes of our stories, supporting us through thick and thin. They believe in us, inspire us, and make us laugh until our sides hurt. So, here’s to the mates who’ve got your back, the ones who prefer the shadows, and the laughter that makes it all worth it. May you find your own comrades in this crazy journey called life. Cheers!
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